|
Anal Sex
Want to rock his
world??? I do it to my BF occasionally, and he LOVES it. A couple simple tips: #1, he should wash up
first, #2, your nails need to be short and filed and hands washed, #3 use plenty of lube and #4 go slow (like you would want
when the tables are turned) . . .
Here are two of MY favorite ways to go about it.
Sometimes when I am giving him oral, I add a well-lubed finger. Approach slowly so he knows what's coming (if he is
not relaxed, certain muscles will tense up, making it hurt.) Insert slowly, pay attention to his reactions and go with it,
in & out motions, maybe with a twist as well, in combo with the oral will ROCK HIS WORLD!!!
If you are flexible and adventurous, you may
want to try simultaneous penetration... here is the easiest way to do it. During intercourse, you are on top facing
away from him. His legs must be apart- yours can be between his, or one between and one off to the side. This
is a great position for playing with the scrotum, but if you are able to reach, you can use a lubed finger as well.
~sxktn
I would definitely
recommend using a vibrator eventually, but not at first. Men seem to be a bit intimidated by machines
in them in the bedroom. It can be so much fun, and bring him very different pleasures than he's ever had. Have fun,
have more questions? I would go to a decent adult novelty (book/video/toys etc) store and find a book, (there are plenty to
choose from) that fits your questions. HAVE FUN!!! ~m_marmot
Be very very careful,
especailly if its the first time.. start with something small like one finger, then work up to 2 and so forth. Lots of lubrication..
that is a must. The second she says she's had enough.. you will stop. Mind you some women cannot fathom the idea of
anal,others can't live without it. You must talk to her first before doing any of this. The last thing you want is for her
to be caught off guard. (Especially if this is not her forte) Hope this helps.. ~silkypeach
Golden Showers
I had a lover years ago who had
a fetish for this. She was a hippy chick and taught me how pee was considered sacred in Eastern philosophy. It
is sterile(first aid books suggest using it to sterilise wounds if hurt in the wild) and only becomes unhygenic if left in
the air and heat for a long period of time. Fresh urine is sterile and warm. It's something I've done but not
something I have to do. If it repulses you just say no. If you're curious give it a try but always reserve the
right to say it's not for you if you try it and don't like it. The choice is yours. ~patrck
Related Links:
6 Do's and Don'ts of Anal Sex
Ambivalent About Anal Sex
Anal Sex: What You Should Know
|
 |
|
|
|
|
|
 Fisting
First of all you will need to be very relaxed. If you are
tense, your vaginal muscles will tighten making penetration difficult. Have a drink or two if it helps, do it by candlelight,
whatever does it for you. This should go without saying, but his nails should be neatly short and hands clean. Some
suggest a latex glove, but in my personal experience this only makes it harder. If you are in a monogamous relationship
without std's, latex is unnecessary. The feel of his skin is much more sensual, and less lube is required meaning less
mess. Also keep in mind you may not be able to go all the way on the first try, or even the first several tries and
that is fine.
READY? HERE WE GO... and remember all of this is at YOUR
pace. Start with 1 finger, 2, 3, 4. If you can get past the knuckles to where the thumb meets the hand, you are
already most of the way there. Next is to carefully get the thumb in too. At this point (and his whole hand should be lubed
to the wrist) a GRADUAL AND GENTLE pushing in with a little twisting motion, combined with curling his fingers under to create
the fist... will get his whole hand inside of you! You will feel a LOT of pressure at the vaginal opening, followed by a release
as his hand slides in, the wrist being thinner...
Following your reactions, he can continue to
make gentle in & out motions, twisting or swirling with his fist, stimulating your clit manually or orally... mmm...
Be prepared, you may have orgasms more intense than you thought possible... I did. ~sxktn
Spanking
We've done spanking before
and during. It's part of role playing and sex talk that turns us both on. When he starts talking about you needing a good
spanking, play into that, tell him "only naughty girls get spankings, am I a naughty girl". He'll probably be suprised
at first, if you haven't been responding, but tell him to play along.
When I really love spanking is during sex.
The combination of the sexual stimulation and the stinging of the spanks, is an incredible turn on. I sometimes wait until
I can tell I'm about to orgasm, and I start the talk about being naughty and needing a spanking, so that it will be simultaneous.
Go with what is comfortable to you, talk about it first, have a "pact" with your partner, that if you don't like it
or it doesn't feel right, all bets are off. ~ebwf
The first time my husband
and I tried spanking, we were having sex "doggie style", and he just slapped my butt kind of hard, I really liked it, he could
tell by my sounds and the way I tightened up around him. Since then we've done it quite a bit. The stinging and the
sound are a real turn on for both of us. We've never done it "before" having sex, but we'll have to try that one. It's
all what you're into, try it and see if you both like it. My orgasms are harder and more intense if he spanks me harder
as the pitch escalates. ~untamed_tc
|
|
|
|
|
