Give yourself a hand!
Seriously, get your hands in on the action. They can do wonders. Use lube, I suggest flavored, because there is NO way
to do this and not get lube in your mouth. Wrap either or both hands around his favorite piece of anatomy and slip and slide
your way to the finish.
Your hands can be used at the beginning, to get him good and hot, then
let your mouth take over for the last part. OR you can alternate using your hands and mouth throughout the whole blow job.
Either way, I doubt your BF will complain too much. With lube, that will feel absolutely like heaven for him!
My DH takes FOREVER to get off orally, so I had to learn this trick in
order to save my neck muscles!! He was so surprised the first time I did it, he came almost instantly! Remember to HAVE FUN
with it. ~gefyon

There is also a spot
in between his balls & anus that responds really well to firm massage. My DH goes nuts when I wait
until it has swelled just a bit & then massage that spot while going down on him. It is easy to transition to it since
he also really REALLY likes to have his balls massaged during oral (he comes sooo much quicker with this stimulation).
Gefyon had a great suggestion too (although I have enough saliva to keep
him slick - don't care much for lube - flavored or not). DH told me to grasp firmly - he'd be sure to let me know if it got
uncomfortable - and to add a twisting motion to hands when I stroked him. Good luck! ~tempestnatpot

The tricks the
above girls mentioned have worked great for me, but i also learned with my ex the value of altoids. Pop two in your mouth
right before you begin to use your mouth. They love it!!! Feels really good on you too, have him use it on you!! ~tigergirl546

Depending on how long
your BF takes to climax there are different ways to go about it. Definitely start with the hands and get him to the tension
build up point. Then you want to find a position that is comfortable for you to go down on him. I have my
BF lay on his back and I will be at his side or straddled over him.
Since you are new to it your cheeks may get tired.....thats why it takes
a little practice. Keep your neck as straight as possible. If you are all twisted up your cheeks and neck will get tired
way too fast. Don't bother even trying to deep throat on your first time since you are new you will definitely gag.
Use your hands during your BJ and massage the base of the
penis. Suck the head and mid shaft. Either up and down motion or hold your mouth down around the mid shaft and use circular
motions with your tongue around the head (my secret tip). Don't feel you need to suck hard.....the harder you do the
quicker your cheeks will tire out. When you get more cheek stamina (lol) then you can fine tune your technique.
Every time I give it to my BF I make his penis tasty
with some of my potions. Some of them have numbing properties to reduce the gags. To spit or swallow is completely up
to you. It has an odd salty taste......keep a small towel nearby in case you'd rather spit. Have Fun!! ~lovepotions

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