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Give yourself a hand!  Seriously, get your hands in on the action. They can do wonders. Use lube, I suggest flavored, because there is NO way to do this and not get lube in your mouth. Wrap either or both hands around his favorite piece of anatomy and slip and slide your way to the finish.

Your hands can be used at the beginning, to get him good and hot, then let your mouth take over for the last part. OR you can alternate using your hands and mouth throughout the whole blow job. Either way, I doubt your BF will complain too much. With lube, that will feel absolutely like heaven for him!

My DH takes FOREVER to get off orally, so I had to learn this trick in order to save my neck muscles!! He was so surprised the first time I did it, he came almost instantly! Remember to HAVE FUN with it. ~gefyon

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There is also a spot in between his balls & anus that responds really well to firm massage. My DH goes nuts when I wait until it has swelled just a bit & then massage that spot while going down on him. It is easy to transition to it since he also really REALLY likes to have his balls massaged during oral (he comes sooo much quicker with this stimulation).

Gefyon had a great suggestion too (although I have enough saliva to keep him slick - don't care much for lube - flavored or not). DH told me to grasp firmly - he'd be sure to let me know if it got uncomfortable - and to add a twisting motion to hands when I stroked him.  Good luck! ~tempestnatpot

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The tricks the above girls mentioned have worked great for me, but i also learned with my ex the value of altoids. Pop two in your mouth right before you begin to use your mouth. They love it!!! Feels really good on you too, have him use it on you!!  ~tigergirl546

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Depending on how long your BF takes to climax there are different ways to go about it. Definitely start with the hands and get him to the tension build up point.   Then you want to find a position that is comfortable for you to go down on him.  I have my BF lay on his back and I will be at his side or straddled over him.

Since you are new to it your cheeks may get tired.....thats why it takes a little practice.  Keep your neck as straight as possible. If you are all twisted up your cheeks and neck will get tired way too fast.  Don't bother even trying to deep throat on your first time since you are new you will definitely gag.

Use your hands during your BJ and massage the base of the penis. Suck the head and mid shaft.  Either up and down motion or hold your mouth down around the mid shaft and use circular motions with your tongue around the head (my secret tip).  Don't feel you need to suck hard.....the harder you do the quicker your cheeks will tire out. When you get more cheek stamina (lol) then you can fine tune your technique.
 
Every time I give it to my BF I make his penis tasty with some of my potions. Some of them have numbing properties to reduce the gags.  To spit or swallow is completely up to you.  It has an odd salty taste......keep a small towel nearby in case you'd rather spit.  Have Fun!! ~lovepotions

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DEEP THROAT

Learn the Angle of the Dangle
 
It can be done.  It is possible to master the necessary technique to take his length into your mouth and down your throat.  The biggest obstacle to taking all of it down your throat is the fact that there is a bend of almost ninety degrees behind your tongue leading down into your throat.  So the first thing to do is get past that dangle angle!
 
In order to practice this, get in a position where you can turn your head in such a way that your mouth and throat lie almost in a straight line. The best position to accomplish this is to lie on a bed so that your head is near the edge with your body sprawled across the bed so that your head is tipped sharply back. This position will put your mouth and throat nearly in a line and will allow your partner to approach you in such a way that insertion of his member can be made so deeply that his pubic hair presses against your lips.
 
You can overcome the tendency to gag by completely relaxing your throat at moment the insertion is made. It is equally important that you maintain this relaxation during the entire deep throating.  Let him put his length down your throat and hold it still while you find the most comfortable way to proceed. Because of your position you will not be able to move or to offer him any greater stimulation than simply keeping your mouth tightly closed around his erection.
 
You will only be able to relax and take it in this way if you completely trust your partner. Your partner is in full control.  He must initiate and maintain all the motion. He will relish this for the simple fact that for the first time he can insert himself as deeply down your throat as he wants to. Now your partner begins an in and out movement that is just like intercourse.  He should start slowly, especially if this is a completely new experience for the two of you. After all if he hurts you he cuts himself off from one of the great pleasures in life. His only other requirement during this exercise is to keep the motion in the same direction-he MUST NOT move from side to side!!
 
Don't let your partner get carried away at the moment he starts to cum. Because of your position in bed you will not be faced with the problem of swallowing his semen. The reason is because he has gotten his erection BEYOND your gag reflex! The semen will shoot directly into your stomach! If both you and your partner understand what it is that you are trying to do as well as the possible problems that may "cum" up along the way no harm or discomfort will happen to either of you. ~patrck

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Related Links: 

Mouth Magic: Worship-Worthy Oral Sex Secrets

The Secrets of Oral Pleasure

How Do I Overcome My Gag Reflex? 

New Pleasures: Nipple Stimulation for Him

Making Condoms a Sexy Part of Lovemaking

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